Hey there!
I’m so thrilled to be back! For a while, I was caught in what they call writer’s block-those moments when your heart is full, but the words just won’t come. That’s why my IG and YouTube thrive: give me video any day! But here I am, embracing the written word, and I appreciate your patience as I navigate this journey.
Lately, I’ve been overwhelmed with gratitude. As many of you know, I was deeply involved in organizing Moms Gather 2025, which took place on May 3rd. What no one tells you about event planning is that it often involves tears, unexpected challenges and testing of your sense of purpose. Looking back at my journal, I see that just three weeks before the event, we had only 70 moms registered, while we had hoped and planned for 200. Despite our prayers, strategies and unwavering belief, doubt was hard to silence.
I turned to the Word-the one place where everything makes sense. God reassured me that Moms Gather was his vision, and He would fill the room. And he did not disappoint.
We were blessed with numerous brands eager to partner with us, offering both financial support and in kind contributions. Gifts were shared, laughter filled the air and the atmosphere was nothing short of joyful. Over 200 moms gathered, making it the most memorable mom event we have ever hosted.
I’m deeply grateful that Daisy and I had the privilege of bringing together these incredible women to celebrate motherhood and engage in meaningful conversations about finances, business, career, self care and beauty. To this day, my heart smiles as I reflect on the powerful testimonies and experiences shared by the moms.
We have created a mom WhatsApp community to keep the conversations and support going. Join our community here. Moms Gather Community
Speaking about motherhood, May is mother’s month and I’ve been learning a lot about being an intentional mom. Here are some of my lessons that I’ve put together in an acronym so that we don’t forget- “PLUG IN”
1. P - Presence
I am continually reminded that for kids, Quality time = Quantity time. What will that look like for you? Pausing work? Declining a new role that takes too much of your time? Delegating some tasks to create more time? More intentional time with the kids together but also individually will help you know their needs, character, temperament, weaknesses, strengths that equip you to nurture them in what God desires.
2. L - Learn
We’ve got to be constantly learning about parenting. Read books, go for parenting seminars, join mom communities that align with your values and most importantly use the blueprint on parenting which is the Word of God. Parenting is not a waterfall, it won’t just flow. A lot is at stake and God is counting on you to raise a godly generation!
3. U - Understanding that they are not ours
We are just stewards of these children but ultimately they are Gods. So teach them about their creator and seek him on what to do. Sometimes in the overwhelm of parenting, when words and all the tricks up my sleeve have failed, I just tell God, “these are your kids, help me”. Teach them scripture, take them to church, have family devotions, Bible study and so on. Remember we are parenting for Eternity!
4. G - Get Help
We are not superheroes and we can’t do this thing alone otherwise we will break! But please remember the people (Nannies, sisters, grannies) are helping but we should be the main characters in our kids lives and not the other way around! Sometimes I ask myself, has the nanny helped me this week or have I “helped” the nanny, if you know what I mean.
5. I - Intentional about your Marriage
One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is a great relationship with your husband. My kids know that Dad comes first, then they follow. Kids first experience love, kindness, sacrifice, through our relationships at home.
6. N- Never too late to start
Any great thing you learn and want to implement at home, you can do it right away and the kids will adjust. It’s usually us the parents that are afraid. Years ago, I would let the kids watch tv for 1 hour everyday. After I learnt about the effect of screen time, I woke up one day and told them things had to change and we would watch only on Sunday afternoon. We didn’t look back and they actually found other creative ways to be entertained.
Please find other useful videos on parenting that we’ve shared on YouTube this month. Lisa Kusiima 's YouTube
So find time to PLUG IN today. When it’s all said and done you want to be able to say, “At least I tried everything I could to raise godly children”